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Ruth Leigh's avatar

One of the 10 Rules Maria Montessori advocated FOR TEACHERS: Never speak ill of the child whether in the child’s presence or absence.

Jake Owensby's avatar

Amen to that. Seems like a good rule for the rest of us

Ruth Leigh's avatar

Stunted, rules-focused rigidity usually indicates a fossilized stage of development, whether on the part of teacher, student, or even AI algorithm.

Moral, conceptual and artistic learning are deeply entwined, deeply human, and — I hope — always evolving into more profound relationship with one another.

Jake Owensby's avatar

You’ve got me thinking of Fowler’s stages

Charlie Strickland's avatar

I’m beginning to incorporate the spiritual practice you gave at the end of your post. Seems like a thoughtful way to review and contemplate my day. Thank you.

Jake Owensby's avatar

I’m glad to hear that it’s helpful Charlie. Have a good day. I’m on the way to preach on baptism and the Trinity this morning.

Charlie Strickland's avatar

Thank you Jake. Praying for you as you prepare to preach.

Aussie Jo's avatar

I wish my husband was here while I was listening to this, he feels the commandments are Strick rules to be followed

Jake Owensby's avatar

Glad this one resonated with you Aussie Jo.

Renee D.'s avatar

“God only has ten commandments “…you must have indeed been the headliner on parent-teacher day🤣🤣. I tend to agree that the purpose of the top ten wasn’t a threat but instead meant to show how to be the humans we should be. Back in my USAF days, there were times where the letter of the law and the spirit of what it intended were in conflict. And while it didn’t always work out in a good way—the spirit was 10/10 the better call than the letter.

Jake Owensby's avatar

The 10/10 rate has been my experience too!

Korie's avatar

It is all about transformation… right? Transforming us into people who live lives of love. And training the attention is a huge part of that, I believe. Thank you as always, Jake, for this thoughtful message.

Jake Owensby's avatar

You are so right, Korie!

Angie Maher's avatar

This is a great post for these times…times when so many are so caught up in the keeping the letter of the law that they fail/don’t want to see the spirit of the law. Jesus’ concern for the spirit of the law shows us that our names are not being tracked under each commandment, nor does he shame us for our failings.

Jake Owensby's avatar

Amen. Amen.

Joe Sers's avatar

Thank you Bishop Jake for always having the right message at the right time

Gerald Smith's avatar

“Resist evil with good. Be merciful even to the wicked. Remember that every person is more than the worst thing they have ever done.”

Amen

Ruth Leigh's avatar

As always … rules confusion needs repeated gospel clarification… for me in my discernment how/what to do in my/our present history — how/what to reasses from the past. So all may flourish. Thank you.

Ms Liz's avatar

In 3rd grade.. so, what age would that be please? Teaching method is somewhat.. draconian?! Yikes.

Jake Owensby's avatar

8 to 9 is the usual range.